Thursday, January 28, 2016

Current events

My boss is retiring after 52(!!!!!) years at Jacobi Sales.  All of us girls went in together & got him an engraved bottle of bourbon & some monogrammed tumblers.  We also took him & his wife to dinner one evening to give him his gift & our intention was to pay for their dinner.... he's the kind of guy who runs the server down before we've even finished eating to pay for all of OUR dinners.
I have worked for him for 14 years.... that's the longest I've worked anywhere.  He's been very good to me over the years & has taught me SO much.  Like seriously ya'll - I can't even tell you how much silly nonsense is in my brain because of him.  
You wanna know about W2's?  I know about 'em.  
You wanna know about State, county & federal withholding taxes?  I know about 'em!
You wanna know about lines of credit at banks & the regulations?  I know about 'em!
You wanna know how much interest a loan will cost you?  I know about it!
  It will be a weird adjustment w/out him at work everyday & getting used to the new boss.  Of course it's a family owned business so another family member is becoming secretary/treasurer.  I've also worked w/ him the last 14 years...but you know how hard it is to work next to someone then going to working FOR them!  It's tough for big-mouthed gal like me...
(Also a plug for the place that engraved our bottle-- we took it to "MADD engraving" in Greenville.  They charged us $20 to do this.  There was no limit to characters, lines, etc.  They can even engrave pictures.  Check them out if you ever need anything done!)


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We have lived in our house for 16 years.  And for 16 years I have been bitching asking for a master bath remodel.  It's a real problem when you have a hubby who can do anything yet has no time to do things for me.  I have finally saved the money to get it done & B-rad has strict instructions that it 'better be done before planting'.  I had asked him to go ahead & get the jacuzzi tub out of there since we NEVER use it & I was sick of cleaning it.  Before I knew it, he was in the bathroom banging & clanging around & I realized he was getting it unhooked.  I ran in & said, "WAIT.  I have to take before pics!"
(You can see we use the jacuzzi tub for really important things like storing the laundry basket...)
    I have picked out the shower & flooring but it's a daunting task.  B-rad still goes to the barn every night & on the weekends (plus he has to shoot on Saturday nights to get ready for his competition thingie) so our shopping time is limited & that really irritates me.  We went to Home Depot one night when he got home 'early' & were there an hour before they closed.  I feel so rushed & I get aggravated about that.  Plus it's late so we have no time to go anywhere else.  You may ask, 'so why not take a Saturday or Sunday to go shopping the whole day?'  Oh, people - if only my life worked that way... I could go by myself but lets be honest, I need B-rad there to tell me why I can't have what I want or to tell me how he could make something work.  He's an intrigal cog in this wheel...

 I have no problem making a decision, but sometimes too many choices becomes overwhelming to me.  I don't know what I would do if I had to build a house & pick out every single itty, bitty tiny thing amongst a million choices.  I would lose my mind.  (When we bought our modular I think I had like 6 choices:  What color carpet {in the whole house - not each individual room!}, what panelling package {YES there were other hideous options besides the flowers!},  what color counters {for kitchen & bathroom - same!}, what color siding, what color shutters & what color roof.  
Easy breezy... 

I hate this flowery panelling.  It's the LAST room in the house to still have it.  I have painted over it in the other rooms.  B-rad is going to tear all this down & put up real dry wall. (UHM that tiny shower is where we've showered for 16 years.  I can't wait to have a bigger shower!  That's the main reason I'm doing this whole thing!)
   Sunday night (when he got him from the farm at 6:30 pm) B-rad tore out that shower & I emptied all our personal effects from the vanity, medicine cabinet & 'over the toilet' cabinet & moved what we needed on a daily basis to the other bathroom.  I told B-rad, "You know I'm going to be bitching at you all the time now to get this done because I'm NOT gonna like being in the other bathroom."  Of course I just shoved stuff everywhere to get it moved & after 2 days of trying to get ready in that bathroom I said, "to hell with this - I HAVE to get this organized!" Tuesday night I worked for over an hour to get things where I felt like they needed to be, which also included taking out what was in that spare bathroom to make room for the items we need to use daily.
(Can I also just say that the amount of products I need for my freaking face is astounding.  Pushing 40 is the devil...)
Even after I got the spare bathroom in some semblance of order I found out I was right - I don't like it & want our bathroom done like yesterday.


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Did ya'll hear about the shooting in Palmyra a couple of weeks ago?  I know I got a few texts about it.   :)  It was right in town between where my parents, aunt & Marcia live & where I work.  The guys in the shop watched Stat flight land & take off again.  They locked the elementary school down too.  This pic was after I got off work & drove past.  It was around 5:30 so most the news cameras had done their live shots & gone.  Wave 3 was still there & you can see the caution tape.

 I recognized the name of the man who was shot but I could NOT place how I knew him.  I texted mom & said, "How do I know him?"... he & his family went to church w/ us when I was young.  The girl that allegedly participated in the shooting lives here locally & has been in & out of jail a lot for drug related charges.  Her dad is raising her kids (according to people I work with - I don't know her personally.  Small town - you hear things ya know?) & her mom died a few years ago from an overdose.  Such a sad situation.

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A couple of weekends ago, Debbie & I headed to Rose's house to spend the weekend.  Remember we all live fairly far away from each other (Rose is 1 hour 45 min from me) so we don't get to see each other often.  I am making a quilt for our bed at the houseboat.  When it's done it 'should' look like this: (pattern only - not the fabric {but how cute is that fabric?!})
Rose & I had bought my fabric a few months back but I cannot do things like this w/ out their supervision so I started on it the weekend we stayed at Rose's.  
Quilting is the craziest thing---you measure where to cut...
 & cut all the fabric apart.  If you look closely you can see the pattern...little blue dots w/ large blue flowers piece & the next pile is little blue flowers piece w/ large blue dots piece.  
Trust me it can get super confusing which would cause me to stare at them for several minutes to make sure I had the match-ups right.
 It took me several hours to cut all the blocks into 3" & 2" strips & match them all together.
THEN you go back & sew them all together.

Each matched pair has a piece of white between it... I cut the white strips according to the instructions of my parental supervisor (Debbie) & of course I chose to sew purple back together first.  When we laid all the blocks I sewed together out we realized she had me cut the white fabric 1/2" too wide so the blocks won't fit together right.  
I had to cut the 1/2" off the remaining white fabric & I finished sewing all the other colors together.  Time flies when you're having fun & re-cutting fabric & it was time to come home before I could fix the purple. Rose assigned me homework to UN-SEW the purple blocks, cut the 1/2" off the white fabric (they even sent me home w/ some of their tools to use!) & I'm supposed to borrow mom's sewing machine to sew them all back together.  THEN I have to 'even' all the blocks up to 4 1/2" total (which Rose also let me borrow a 4 1/2" square for!) 
So far I've done none of those things... 
Sewing is more fun w/ friends...