Obviously as the title states - I'm sick. Boo hiss. I hate being sick. (but really, who doesn't?!)
I've laid around all.day (more on that in a sec) & finally got up off the couch to fix something on my iPad. I need iTunes to do it & sadly there is an update. Since I live in the middle of no freaking internet ville it's taking for-ever to do a measley 42 mb download. Bleh. So, I'm bored waiting for the green bar to go all the way to the right & I thought I'd chat with ya'll.
Usually every year around this time I get sick. I just do. I don't know why. I'm weird. In anticipation of my trip last weekend, I was loading up on vitamin C & zinc trying NOT to get sick before we went. Well, it worked..until Monday. My throat has been scratchy, I've got drainage (ick) & I'm constantly clearing my throat because all the crap is just hanging there. I'm getting on my nerves.
So, I felt pretty bad yesterday but I had to go to work because something important happens on the 25th of each month & I'm repsonsible for doing it. When the something was finally done around 1:30 I asked if I could go home. I was starting to have bad sinus pressure by that point.
I went to the store to get some medicine & came home & went.to.sleep. I woke up that evening & since I hadn't been home Mon or Tues night I had to do laundry, dishes & fix supper. I was still feeling crappy & was debating on whether or not to go to work today. Something else important was supposed to happen today that required me. Responsibilty blows, people.
I woke up at 6:30 this morning still feeling awful. I re-set the alarm for 7:30 (when someone would be at work for me to call in) & went back to sleep. I called in around 7:40, re-medicated around 9:30 & went back to sleep at 10. I woke up at 1:30, finally got out of bed & laid on the couch.
B-rad stopped at the store to get some Sprite & other essentials (including supper. YAY!). I fell back asleep on the couch around 6:30 & woke up when my phone rang at 8:15. Wow. Apparently I've needed rest?!
I still feel crappy. My voice is jacked.up. I really sound awful. I had 2 doctors appointments today & called to re-schedule them. Thankfully they could tell I was sick & didn't charge me for cancelling. One lady said, "Oh honey - you sound awful!" Uhm...thanks....
Now the big questions is - do I go to work tomorrow? I don't call into work sick. I just don't. This is the 2nd time in 10 years I've called in. But, I also think it's silly to go to work when I'm sick because I could potentially get others sick. We don't have sick days either so I have to take them unpaid or use up vacation days. Decisions, decisions...
I don't think I have an infection or anything so I don't think the doctor could do anything for me. Everything is clear (if you catch my drift...). I just feel really blah.
And in the time it took me to type & proofread this - my iTunes still is only 1/2 way done. Man, it sucks to be me!
Since I have some time - I'll tell you a story. In the last year or so, I have figured out that home shows aren't all about me. (Oh, the humanity...) It's about my hostess, her guests & making them feel pretty & important. It's been tough for me sometimes because I love: a) talking & b) talking about myself. But I've learned that they don't want to know about me. I'm the one who wants to know about them. It's about creating a relationship.
A guy B-rad works with wife wanted to have a show for me last year. I did the show & met her mother in law there. The mother in law booked a show. At her show I met a couple of her sisters & their mother. Sweetest.people.ever. The sisters booked a show & so on & so forth so I've seen these gals a lot over the last 6 months. They hug me, they know my name (not just, 'hey there's the jewelry lady!') & they make me feel like part of their family. They never come into the show with the attitude, "Yea, we've been here done this a thousand times before."
The last sister had a show for me in December. My last show of 2011. She was a kindred spirit to me because her addiction to RED was as bad as mine to PURPLE! She had a red Christmas tree & everything! I knew she loved red. She hadn't been feeling well before her show but she didn't cancel on me. We did the show...her sisters & mom came (again). She picked out the Red Hot necklace we have (duh, it's red) & let her daughter who was home from college have all the rest of the free pieces.
I was doing a bunco a couple of weekends ago & the sister of the hostess (another hostess of mine) works with the original sister I booked with this past summer. I asked, "Hey, how's ***** doing?" She said, "Oh, she's ok, she should come back to work this week. Her sister passed away." I said, "Oh no! Which sister?!" (UHM, I know them all!) She replied which sister & I sucked out all the oxygen in that room. It was the sister from the show in December. The one that loved red.
I was completely shocked & saddened. She had passed a week after New Years. After I left that show I called the original sister & left a voice mail. Seriously, ya'll - this really sent me for a loop. I couldn't believe it. They're not really sure what happened, some kind of disease to her brain. She was put into the hospital & a week later she died. They did an autopsy that revealed the brain disease but I don't know any other details.
I bought each of the sisters & the mom a card & wrote a personal note to each of them. My heart was breaking for them all. They were one of those families where you know they all loved each other very much, but still had fun teasing & laughing at each other.
My show Tuesday night was with the niece of the sister that died. It was the first time I had seen them since their sisters passing. They all hugged me (again) & thanked me for the cards. The mom was also there. You can tell a part of them is missing, but now they each were angel pins in memory of their lost sister.
After things were winding down, one of them was chatting with me a bit about her. I said, "I really hope ya'll did something 'red' for her!" She said, "Oh yes, she had a red casket." WOW. Talk about going out in style. I KNOW she would've LOVED that.
So-here's what I've learned since starting my journey in this jewelry business: Some people have a negative view of direct sales. (Thank goodness Premier doesn't view themselves as that. We are a direct SERVICE company.) Whatever your views are - think about this: there are SO many people out there that I would have never, ever, ever had the pleasure of meeting had it not been for this jewelry business. There are lives I've touched & that have touched mine had it not been for this jewelry business. And yes, I have even made quite a bit of money that I would not have made if had not been for this jewelry business.
Even though it's a lot of work, I do love it. I have fun. I get to make ladies feel pretty when putting on some bling. I teach them fashion skills (when I have none of my own). Sometimes I meet the whole family & even find out the hostess is related to me! (Yes, that HAS happened!!!) I have a great support system with my jewelry family. Have I had bad moments? Of course - but the good far out-weighs the bad.
Well, that's the whole story...I can't stretch it anymore... AND, my iTunes update is still not done. Sheesh... (And, I'm still getting on my nerves clearing crap outta my throat...)